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Kaytee has been blind since 6 weeks old
due to a bite to the head. She was adopted by Karen Mier at eight weeks of age, and will
be eight years
old in July 2002. This special team has been through a lot together.
According to Karen, "You really have a different point of view after sharing your
life with the special ones. Training a blind puppy is very challenging, interesting and
amazing." I am hoping to hear more from Karen as she shares her experiences with
Kaytee. An article appeared in the Wisconsin State
Journal on April 25, 1996 with Karen and her pack (photo taken by L. Roger Turner). Karen
Mier is the "alpha.dog" in the running pack, which includes her Golden
Retrievers, from left, Kaytee, 1, who's blind, Sandi, 7, who's afraid of snowplows; and
Rusty, 9, who's been jogging since 9 weeks old. They start a three-mile run on the East
Side of Madison every day at 5 a.m., unless it's dangerously cold. Their worst problem is
being attacked by stray dogs. "I hang on tight if we get charged, and I scream at the
other dog," Mier said. This is Karen's story about Kaytee
that she wrote in 1997: Kaytee was born in Ohio. Her breeder was having a picnic and
someone was feeding the sire people food. Kaytee jumped on him and he turned and bit her
in the head. I do not know if it was intentional or not. She lost her right eye and was
blinded in the left. I can not imagine how she must have cried. I was told that her poor
little (six-week-old) head was so swollen they could not tell that she was blind and if
they had known I think they would have put her to sleep. Well, this guy had a small child
that was teasing Kaytee. He felt the child was winning now but in the future Kaytee might.
He called around to try and find a home for her. He brought her to the Vet School here in
Madison, Wisconsin where I work. Several had taken her home for a trial. Oh, yes, she was
cute, but very blind. I had not gone to look at any of the other dogs needing homes
because I had two Goldens, Rusty and Sandi. Someone stopped by and said, "they
have a really cute golden down stairs". I don't know why but I went down. I fell in
love with her. She needed me. I told hubby it was for the
weekend. She was 8-weeks-old at the time and she now in 1997 has just turned three.
She was very mouthy and aggressive at first. After she learned she was home and safe, she
did soften up. Well, after being born, injured and homeless all in eight weeks, what could
be expected? It had been a long time since we had a puppy in the house. It's a good thing
Kaytee is a large breed dog or I would still carry her around and she does not need that.
Stairs were the hardest to learn. Once she learned to trust me, I could ask her to do
anything. We went to puppy class and beginner
obedience. Little Kaytee received a standing ovation at both graduations. She has learned
turn right, left, step up, step down. A tap on the floor shows her where she has dropped a
piece of food or where her favorite wobbie is. I always announce when I am leaving the
room and where I am going, upstairs or downstairs and she will follow most of the time.
She likes to lay on my lap so I can't get away. We have a fenced in yard but I
still go out with her every time she goes, mainly because she
eats things she shouldn't. She likes to sit at the top of the second floor and listen to
things, she bobs her head up and down (reminds me of Stevie Wonder). I tried to let her roam
through a small part of the house when we are at work. She must have thought someone was
at the door because she made huge holes in the wall by the door. I repaired them and it
happened a few more times. She has an X-Pen with carpet on the floor. It's like a baby's
play pen and she does very well in that during the day. At night she is free to roam and
stays upstairs with us. Sometimes I think she thinks she is invisible, because she can't
see us. She will sit right in front of you with a big sock sticking out of her mouth.
Really she is so special and sweet I could go on forever.
A Day in the
Life of Kaytee
During the work week the
clock goes off at 5 a.m. I usually wake up and Kaytee is snuggled next to me. She appears
sound asleep. All I need to do is sit up or click on the light next to my side of the bed and she is up.
She jumps off (over two-foot high bed) with great speed, does a few stretches and we are
ready to head down to the first floor. Kaytee is ahead of me and then to the basement
where my jogging clothes and shoes are. Then harnessed up it's a quick trip to the yard
and out the fence to start our journey. She stays close to me and does get startled with
some of the noises, garbage trucks sirens or horns. I tell her "It's ok, I'm right
here". We continue on. I let Kaytee know when to turn or step up or down or
WAIT,
which is like freeze in order to stop at a intersection. I also let her know when we get
close to the railroad tracks as there is a gap. She spreads her paws and marches like when
she is going up the back stairs at home. Kaytee always knows when we are close to an object, a car, or a bridge. She must
sense the air movement as she kind of looks at it. We finally
arrive back home. This is great, and it kind of happened as a fluke. I go around the front
porch to grab the paper. We enter the back gate where I throw the paper on the porch and
remove her harness and leash. What does Kaytee do? She picks up the newspaper. Now, I
could never get my sighted dogs Rusty or Sandi to take it even if I gave it to them. So
proudly she carries it in to hubby. This is not easy for her. Due to her injury she also
has a wry mouth. It is crooked and has a severe inner bite. The heavy ones, and the Sunday
paper I help her carry. When the paper is there in
the morning I sing a little song to the tune of "If you want to be a badger just come
along with me" (a football rally song). I sing "If you want to be a paper girl,
sit pretty for me" (yes, I am a little crazy). Kaytee will sit so straight and wait
for me to hand her the paper.
All of my dogs seen to collect several names. Kaytee, Kayteelee, and somehow LeeLee, and
peanut, sugar, honey, munchkin. Well now we are in the house. When Kaytee was a pup I
would lock her in the bathroom with me when I would take a shower so she would not get
into trouble. Now, we get back and that is where she goes to wait for me. My bathroom is
so small I have to step over her to get in or out of the shower. On the weekends I may not
head in right away and she stays there for a while. Finally she will come out. When I am
ready to shower I say "Show, Show, LeeLee and she runs into the bathroom where she
also gets her teeth brushed every day. For that it's "Lets see LeeLee's teeth,"
and she raises her head for me to brush them.
Once I turn off the water and slide open the shower door, she runs to the living room
closet. That is where the food is. She loves to eat. I fill up the bowls while I comb my
hair and dry off so I can make sure I see her if she heads for another bowl. She plays
with her wobbie and jumps over Sandi while I get ready for work. I take her out one or two
more times before we leave for work at seven. Then a treat and "Lets go to Kaytee's
house" which is her x-pen. I tell her Sandi is here and we will see her later, we
will be back and have to go to work. When I am just going outside for five minutes I tell
her I will be right back. This lets her know when she is in for
the long haul. After work it's "Kaytee, Mommy's home, grab your wobbie lets go outside." I
open the door on her pen and she flies outside. Running with her stuffed dinosaur in her
mouth barking, kind of muffled and cute. She was almost two years old before she would go
out with my husband. Kaytee would wait at the door for me, unless she really
had to go. Then there's a race back in the house to that special closet where the food bag
sits. During the evening, more trips out and play. Then at bedtime we all head upstairs.
If we humans stay up to late, she goes up without us.
On the
weekends we try to get to the dog park. There is one that is very open and Kaytee chases
Sandi till Sandi manages to lose her. Then Kaytee just jumps up and down trying to find
her. Kaytee gets going pretty fast. I have to tell her to turn when she is getting close
to a tree. I also use bump, out and at home, for a impending
crash and she weaves away. It sure makes my heart smile to see my blind little girl out of
breath and all tuckered out from playing and running so hard.
Kaytee loves to ride in the car. She runs out the fence and follows Sandi straight to
the car with no hesitation and jumps right in. When I was looking for help to guide Kaytee
at the puppy stage, I couldn't find much help. Most people had older dogs who lost their
sight after learning all about the world. So it was live and learn by trial and testing
out different things. Since there are no human kids at our house I was able to spend all
my free time helping Kaytee. I usually stay around on weekends because they have to be
alone all week while we are at work.
I lost Rusty in 1997 and Sandi in 1999. I now have Oscar a sweet almost 4-year-old Golden
to be Kaytee's sight dog and of course for me, as sight human. Kaytee just had her seventh
birthday
on July 8, 2001. We had a little party and she had a party hat and big marrow bone. She
loved it. She has not gone jogging since before we moved, two years ago. Oscar and I go
jogging and then we come back and take Kaytee walking as far as she wants to go. Kaytee
had surgery last November to remove her remaining eye due to much pain and trouble. They
also thought she had a sarcoma on her face that was removed at the time of surgery and
gave us options for chemo or radiation. I decided it was too much for her and she would
stay home with us. It has been almost 18 months and all is well. Kaytee has also been
taking medication for a hypothyroid condition for almost five years. She is my little
trooper, my hero. Everyone who meets Kaytee falls in love with her. She snuggles up and
leans right next to you. My friend tells me she is a real date magnet at the dog park as
the guys just melt over her!
Here
is Kaytee's winning entry in the 2001-2002
Fur-Ever Love
Contest. She was 8-year-old in this
photo.
July 23, 2004 Update Last weekend we
were in northern Wisconsin. We stayed with relatives on a lake. Oscar (sighted) was afraid
to go very far into the lake. Didn't want to swim. Miss Kaytee went right in and started
to swim. She is so cute. She spreads her paws and just swims in the direction of our
voice. Oscar then followed Kaytee's lead and swam out with her. She continues to amaze me.
The blind teaching the sighted. That would have been a great movie clip. Except Gary and I
were both in the water too.
December 2003 Update (Christmas
Greeting)
July 2004 Update (Birthday Celebration) Karen surely can't believe that her baby
is 10-years-old. Miss Kaytee, the princess, sure did enjoy her cake, served on grandma's
fine china. And, according to Mom, she was sweet enough to share with Oscar!
January 2005 Update (It's Snow!)
July 2005 Update (11th
Birthday)
Now if only us humans could be as happy as
our Goldens! Hubby Gary was in charge of making
sure no one sampled the cake until the photos were finished. It
wasn't an easy job.
December 2005 Update
April 2006 Update Here is Kaytee's winning entry in the
Sweet
Golden Smiles Photo Contest. She was an
11½-year-old in this photo.
May 2006 Update
A new
little puppy sister for Kaytee and Oscar has been
brought home into the family. This is
what Momma Karen has to say about little Josie: "She
is precious. She does not like spending time in the
x-pen. Can she squeal and shake those bars. Oscar
and Kaytee are getting use to her. I have to make
sure she stays away at meal time. She wants to jump
on them. She has a lot of energy and is a full time
job. :)"
July 2006 Update We received this message from Karen on July 10, 2006: "Kaytee
had a great 12th birthday last Saturday. She did share
her birthday cake (chicken and potato) with Josie and
Oscar." Here are the wonderful photos from this special
event. Be sure to check out the custom bandana,
inscribed - HAPPY 12th BIRTHDAY KAYTEE.
December 2006 Update We received this marvelous card that now sports 3
furkids' delight at the holidays.
February 2007 Update We received this marvelous photo just filled with
love for Valentine's Day. June 2007 Update
We asked Karen how our Kayee girl was doing and
this was her response: "She is such a trooper. The tumor on her gum is quite
large now. She has many. The one on her side is about 6" x 9". It does not
seem to bother her. She is taking Rimadyl twice a day.
We went camping this last weekend. Attached is a
photo of my tired campers. "There is no place like home."
July 8, 2007 Update
This very sad message comes from Kaytee's mom, Karen. It was posted to the
Golden Hobbes Email List. It has taken some time to get it up here because just
reading it would bring so many tears. Kaytee has meant so much to us here at the
Land of PureGold and represents our special educational and therapeutic mission
in which we believe stories can be healing and instructive devices as well.
Today was Kaytee's
13th birthday and it was celebrated by Karen and her hubby Gary. They are
placing beautiful flowers in her memory garden
where they also have flowers for their Rusty and Sandi. Now, they are all
together. Karen's Oscar seems sad but little Josie is the clown that is
helping distract Karen from her grief.
It was so
heartbreaking when Karen shared this with me: "She went to the bridge
holding the stuffed animal she won in your contest. I wore my earth
angel shirt for the first time yesterday, it gave comfort for me."
Hello All
I came across my welcome message to G@H. Dated May 1995 I joined
desperately to find help to raise my little blind golden, Kaytee.
You all were such a wealth of information.
I have mostly been out here lurking reading all the posts. I'm sure
some of you who have been here a while will remember us.
I can't believe it has been almost 13 since I carried home a blind
(due to a bite to her head) 8 week old puppy in my arms that a
breeder left at the Vet School where I work. It was only for the
weekend :). Kaytee captured my heart from the very first moment when
our adventures together began.
I was worried about how to train a blind pup. The same as a sighted
one. Just to make areas safe, pushing in chairs and shutting doors.
With my two goldens Rusty and Sandy we all learned together. I
taught her things and they taught her, not always the best. I found
Sandi leading the way with Kaytee behind her stealing tomatoes from
the garden. They both came out with smiles on their green faces.
I have so many fond memories.
For Kaytee learning to go up stairs was one of the most difficult
tasks. Pups usually hop. As soon as she was strong enough to use her
legs independently the stairs were no problem. It was a fine day the
first time she was able to go up on her own. We all cheered. After
that she just ran up and down them. In our first house she would go
up to the second floor landing and sit tilting her head back and
forth just like Stevie Wonder. She would listen for everything. She
could hear me putting on my shoes and race me to the door.
Kaytee and I went to puppy class and beginner obedience. She was one
of the "top dogs" in the class. She had learned to trust me totally
and anything I would ask she would do with no hesitation.
She would go jogging with me, Rusty and Sandi every morning. She
would learn turn, step, stop, or tracks, and she would spread her
paws and march across.
Kaytee has taught me so much about love, life and what is important.
The fact that she was not sighted did not bother her at all. She
embraced life, played, ran in the park where so many were amazed to
watch her. She swam better than my sighted dogs.
When she was younger she even brought in the news paper. One day she
stepped on it and I asked her to pick it up and bring it in. My
sighted dogs never did that. I would have to help her with the
Sunday edition, it was quite heavy.
Kaytee has been an inspiration to so many. Her web page on
Rochelle's site
http://landofpuregold.com/kaytee.htm was read my many and helped
those who thought what we considered a disability was not to our
canine friends.
We had been on vacation the weekend of June 22. We spent the weekend
camping.
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