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Diane Pennington,
Director of NY's H.A.R.T. Programs sent us this tribute on March 27, 2001.
My Katie was a therapy dog who got her certification at the age of eight. Because I have
trained and helped certify many many teams since then, I realize how very special she was.
I also was privileged to be with her when she took her last breath on October 4, 1998. She
had fallen ill (or at least showed her symptoms) suddenly and passed within a few days. In
fact, it was early on the morning I was to have our vet come to us to help her pass that
she died. I think she knew I was having a terrible time deciding the right time, and in
one final act of caring for others, she relieved me of the choice.
I wrote a short piece about Katie in July 1996 (which follows), talking about one
experience we had working in a locked psych facility in Manhattan. I think of her very
often and am so grateful that she came into my life. The day before Katie died was a
beautiful Golden October day. We were sitting together in her favorite spot next to the
lake on which I lived.
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Tribute
Katie is a very special creature, with
Golden red fur and warm, gentle brown eyes. Shes my partner . . . a ten-year-old
Golden Retriever with an irresistible personality. As a team, we have been volunteers
doing Pet-assisted therapy and activities for the past three years. I started out
wondering how I could be of help to the populations we visit. Now, I simply
focus on being aware and staying out of Katies way as she makes her unique
connection with each person she encounters. The work is all hers. Katies own special powers of healing can
soothe or motivate and communicate in a way that makes my human speech seem clumsy,
limited. Her presence is powerful in its acceptance, non-judgement, intuitiveness and
eagerness to meet (and be touched by!) anyone regardless of their appearance, color
or social status. In that way, she constantly challenges me in my abilities to do the
same. Our society is quickly becoming aware of animal-assisted therapy/activity programs
through groups such as the Delta society, plus other regional or local groups involved in
this work. Katie and I are part of both national and local groups. Current research is
confirming how petting animals can lower blood pressure, but further study is being done
to measure the effects on the immune system and recovery rates. We even know how service
animals daily perform simple or heroic acts, but that doesnt even scratch the
surface. Ive seen people transformed to become open and vulnerable with Katie in a way
theyd not likely respond to another human. One woman we used to visit on a regular
basis in a mental health facility, suffered from severe depression and was often withdrawn
for long periods of time. Katie was undaunted in the face of such pain, and instead took
on just the right qualities to bring her out. On one particular visit, Katie and I respectfully approached her as usual to say
hello. She was quiet, detached and didnt appear to want to speak to us, so we moved
on. Later, we came by again This time, Katie instinctively sat at her feet, watching and
waiting for a response. When the woman did look at her, she began to wag her tail and smile her open-mouthed
smile. She leaned against her leg, nuzzling her nose under the womans
hand, gently nudging and inviting her to stroke Katies head. Within a few minutes,
Katie was lying next to her on the seat, belly-up as she accepted the rubbing and patting
and the woman gradually blossomed, even smiled. She began talking about her life
while Katie remained there simply being and creating a welcoming space.
Now, this may seem simplistic, just a warm fuzzy, nothing really
significant, but I know better. Even though our friend was severely depressed (and
probably highly medicated), Katie was able to motivate her to focus, to become lucid
enough to connect and even communicate. She was able to get past her sadness and
withdrawal long enough to speak with those around her, a significant accomplishment,
according to staff. Katies work with our clients is profound. She creates a safe, warm
and healing connection with adults and children. She intuitively knows what each needs,
enthusiastically gives of her energies, and stays until the work is done. Even though that
is simple, what she is able to give to them, within a space of unconditional acceptance,
is astounding. And others receive this easily from her, whereas they may not be able to
receive the same from me, or others around them. Many ancient cultures have long recognized the value of animals, and the special
gifts they bring us. Those who have had the blessing of an animal in their lives
from an encounter in the wild, to a cherished pet or even service animal know by
experience what they can do. More than just a change in blood pressure or a momentary
distraction from stress, their impact can be life-changing if we are listening and
watching for the lessons they offer us. My Katie is a pure, loving, gentle-spirit who offers joy and comfort to everyone she
touches. As I write this, Katie is bringing me her healing presence. Today, I got
the news that one of the pet-assisted therapy teams we have worked with for the past two
years, Judy Yee and her partner, Max, were on board TWA flight 800 that went down earlier
this week. I have felt for the families and friends as I followed the story in the news.
Now, it is not them but we who have lost someone in this terrible
tragedy. Katie came to me as I cried and watched the news in shock, looking into my eyes and
urging me to stroke her head as Ive seen her do for others so many times. Jesse, my
German Shepherd, also rallied to my side, licking my tears from my face, anxious over my
grief. I cant think of a better way to offer tribute to Judy and Max than to share
with you about these wonderful animals and the way they are truly changing lives. Judy and
Max will be remembered by all of us who worked with and loved her. I know the lives they
touched are more whole for having known them both.
I feel a certain comfort knowing that Judy had Max there with her, and that they
remain partners, even in death. I know Judy was grateful to have Max in her life, just as Im grateful to have
Katie and Jesse here with me, working their healing magic for me tonight.
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